Here Is How Narcissists See Love...!

When a narcissist says “I love you,” they mean that they love the way they feel when you work hard to make them happy.

They love how easy it is to take advantage of your generosity, compassion and kindness. They derive pleasure when they make themselves feel superior to you, and make you feel insignificant and small.

Actually, this being a serious mental condition, I’m sorry to tell you that a Narcissist has a sickness based on a self-love which is malignant. That means the “n” person can only love themselves. Actually they can’t even really love themselves, which is why this type of love is malignant.

It is because of their self-hatred that they create this self aggrandizement. They can’t stand themselves so they create delusions of Grandiosity in order to mask the pain of their poor self image which they can not face.

They love the feeling it gives them seeing you as emotionally crazy, weak, and vulnerable, as, in their view, your gullibility, innocence and childlike desires prove your inferiority and weakness.

They only care about themselves, and they love the way they feel when you carry all the load of the relationship. They also care about you in the sense that you give them something, so they love you for that.

They love the fact that your life is all about them. You solve their issues, fix their problems, and relieve their pain.

Unfortunately other people just simply are little pieces of string that they play with for their own amusement like a cat does. They are not in any state of mental health where they are capable of loving anything but their own reflection.

The may harbor sentimentality or nostalgic feelings for some people, places, times and things, however those are just decorations on their Christmas Tree of Megalomania.